21 Questions To Ask A Guy
Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazing thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!
Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, \”How to win friends and influence people\” shares about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you\’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to last-base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you\’re a woman and want to pamper a guy\’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here\’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here\’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?
3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What\’s the most hilarious experience you\’ve had in your entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?
11. What\’s the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal!
15. Have you ever been caught naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What\’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
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